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Posted 05 September 2006 - 07:26 PM
You like a guy who's unavailable, so you try and forget him. Lets call him Adam he knows you like him
Its hard for a long time.
Eventually you see someone who could possibly take your mind of Lets call him Tom
Now Adam and Tom work together. You don't work with either.
Today you see both of them in their workplace both seem happy to see you you are happy to see them both.
Is this bad does Adam feel that he's losing you even though he can't have you.
Could he be jealous of Tom.
I don't think Tom knows but he is always friendly with you as is Adam sometimes overfriendly
You have also had a flirting history with Adam, but nothing happened the most intimate thing that happened was a hug.
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Though He Is Unavailable Could He Still Be Jealous Of Single Guys
MultiQuote#2 Guest_Bud_*
Posted 11 September 2006 - 10:16 AM
Dear enigma
Considering that Adam has had every opportunity to drop his girlfriend for you but hasn't done so implies that he is perfectly happy to be in his present relationship.
In this regards, you should not feel any concern for his happiness whatsoever because he is where he is because of his choice. Regardless of how much flirting there has been in the past between the both of you, this is now all history and should not hold any relevance today.
From the sounds of things it appears that you have moved on with Tom anyway. Since Tom is here and available whereas Adam has never been, give your relationship with Tom a fair go by focusing on it and him 100 percent. For the moment Tom is the future whereby Adam is the past. In this regards concentrate on
what is in front of you instead of what is behind you.
Good luck with it - Bud.
Considering that Adam has had every opportunity to drop his girlfriend for you but hasn't done so implies that he is perfectly happy to be in his present relationship.
In this regards, you should not feel any concern for his happiness whatsoever because he is where he is because of his choice. Regardless of how much flirting there has been in the past between the both of you, this is now all history and should not hold any relevance today.
From the sounds of things it appears that you have moved on with Tom anyway. Since Tom is here and available whereas Adam has never been, give your relationship with Tom a fair go by focusing on it and him 100 percent. For the moment Tom is the future whereby Adam is the past. In this regards concentrate on
what is in front of you instead of what is behind you.
Good luck with it - Bud.
#3 Guest_enigma_*
Posted 12 September 2006 - 04:43 PM
Thanks Bud. You are right that i should have no concern about Adam's feelings. Guess that is my one weakness i care for peoples feelings, and not wishing to hurt them
But the past is the past i know ishould concentrate on the present and the future.
But the past is the past i know ishould concentrate on the present and the future.
#4 Guest_illusory_*
Posted 03 December 2006 - 10:28 AM
In this older thread~ Yes, unavaliable guys can "For Sure" get jealous of single women!! But not always necessaryly b/c of the reasons we think!!!
#1 He could be secretly attracted to you, but not willing to go further then flirting/attentive!
#2 Flirty friends and doesn't like "TOM" getting his friend
OR let's not forget the word "Narcisstic" Yeah I experienced those ones and there are alot of those out there too!!!
#1 He could be secretly attracted to you, but not willing to go further then flirting/attentive!
#2 Flirty friends and doesn't like "TOM" getting his friend
OR let's not forget the word "Narcisstic" Yeah I experienced those ones and there are alot of those out there too!!!
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