Posted 28 November 2011 - 01:53 PM
Master The Fine Art of Talking to Women?
What should you look for to know whether he/she's truthful and suitable mate for you? Date a woman on par with you. As in don't reach out of your league.
How to lead casual conversation with a romantic spark? Aspects of flirting that distinguish it from the ordinary courtesy. What are attraction turn-offs for most people?
How to find something in common to talk about? What kind of signs do girls give you when they're interested? Follow this advice and eventually you will have to work on figuring out which girls you want to keep.
First i must introduce myself, my name quite simply is cory. I am 21 and very aware that i have my whole life ahead of me, i don't mean to sound rude or arrogant, im just depressed. I have only ever had one relationship that started when i was 16 and ended just 4 or 5 months ago. I must fill in some of the blanks so that you get an accurate depiction of the persona that is myself. I am not upset or jealous that my ex has moved on, i am upset and confused as to why i do not attract girls. In the real world i am a bar tender in a small town, a very small town. Schulenburg Texas to be precise. There is nothing here, no cute girls or approachable women, nothing but old people in an old town. I cannot call myself handsome since handsome men have girlfriends or wifes, i have no one, nor a line of women chasing me. I have very little money, a struggling family and no car. I do realize that you have to get out to make a change to your life. In order to help battle my depression of not having a girl who actually loves me for me i turned to online dating, pleantyoffish, okcupid, even justhookup. Nothing. Every girl posts something that goes along the lines of this:
Hi im super unique and fun and love to party (please insert a few good looking pics of said girl) im not some **** looking for a one night stand but im totally spontaneous and deep and bubbly and smart. (im basically fusing together all the profiles i've come across) I'll give anyone a chance so message me
but if your not my type i won't give you a chance! i want a man who will love me, cuddle with me, kiss me, and treat me right, if thats you then step up, but if it isn't then don't bother! I love playing video games and reading and i want to be a doctor, bla bla bla bla balaaa. ktnxbye!
The end result is they are really looking for a guy who will take care of them, love them, treat them right and all that good stuff. I know for a fact that i am that said guy (i don't mean that i am the one for them, but i have all of those in my qualifications) i know that im shy and i don't really know how to talk to girls but i try to make sure that i state my intentions clearly. I know not everyone on those sites wants a relationship but i have literally emailed hundreds of girls and maybe out of that 10 have bothered to message me back with more than three words. I wonder if I'm really that ugly because i know that im not a shitty person, when i ask a question from them im actually wanting to hear their answer, i actually care about what they have to say and im actually interested in them for more than just their physical looks, im pretty sure its obvious that im interested in dating them. I must be freaking ugly as *beep* or something... I feel like im destined to be alone, each day my depression only worsens and i don't want to go back to that point of just hating life. i don't know how to make myself more handsome... or desirable. i guess women are really only after super rich vampire pirate guys with six pac abs named edward depp.