Posted 14 October 2011 - 05:43 AM
Master The Fine Art of Talking to Women?
What should you look for to know whether he/she's truthful and suitable mate for you? Date a woman on par with you. As in don't reach out of your league.
How to lead casual conversation with a romantic spark? Aspects of flirting that distinguish it from the ordinary courtesy. What are attraction turn-offs for most people?
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So, we were out with some friends, hanging out in the arcade. I was locked in a thrilling game of table tennis with some friends. So this guy approaches my girl and begings making conversation. He was intrigued by her hair, she had actually tried a kind of reddish die on it, and he complimented her on it. She looked really cute, and I observed, so I just smild, i mean,it feels good to know a guy is into your girlfriend. And it was not like a date where he came rudely and did it. So i didnt mind. They talked for a while, i noticed she was blushing, and he was really doing everything right, such as confidence, eye contact, etc. Eventually he asked her out, and she explained to him she was with me. So he apologised, and he saw me looking, and he smiled. Anyways, she went to the mall a few weeks ago with her friends, and apparenlty he was there, and she said he saw her and he waved. She said she felt a bit bad that she had turned him down, after how he came all confident, so she decided to just show him she appreciated it, and she went over and said hello. So they talked, and well, turns out, he asked her for her BBM pin, and said, that although she is unavailable, he would like to be her friend, because they got a lot of the same interests. So they exchanged, and well, i guess over the time since then, they have grown close. They are always chatting online and stuff, and meeting up! Lol, i know, its wrong to be jealous, and yes, she has a life of her own, but i am like wondering.
She has been very honest thus far, she tells me when they go out, she mentions what they do, she doesnt hide anything, and she is very open. Our relationship is really nice. But I am wondering if perhaps there is more you know. I mean, she felt bad for rejecting him because of how brave he was, but shouldn't she not feel that way, i mean, we are together, so technically he was not rejected, he was more, explained to. Anyways, they are pretty close. And i mean, the guy, he asked her out, flirted, met her, everything, and i mean, you can't just go from that to accepting friendship. What if he has ulterior motives? I trust my gf, i know she wudnt do that, and if she does leave me, i will accept it. But do you guys think I should be worried here.
Geez, i just got over the deal with one of her friends being all love dovey with her, not a flirter is into the mix lol. I have expressd some of my concerns to her, and she assures me they are friends, and she is not leaving any room for him to make any moves, but i mean, u know... relationships build... things happen. I guess it is a silly thread, but it also is alarming lol. Then it is kind of unfair, because I do get to be friends with other girls, even those i just met... and she never minds or says anything. But then again,, i dont mind her with guy friends, but my main concern, this guy showed interest, he asked her out, settled for friendship. SO HE COULD EASE THE BOYFRIEND OUT?? >.<