Posted 29 January 2011 - 05:14 AM
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Hey guys, i cant find the last post i made here where i was discussing something similar, about this guy in my girlfriend's class. Who was very charming, flirty, and had all the girls head over heels for him, including her lol. I am not really the jealous type, she has a lot of guy friends, and she goes out with all of em sometimes, and I trust her, and I know she trusts me too. With this guy, I am growing a bit wary.
To begin with, he spends a lot of time with her... more so that her other CLOSER guy friends... *beep* EVEN MORE THAN ME!!! THE BOYFRIEND!!! He is always around lately, always in the library with her, going to lunch, all sort of things. Her girl friends are usually with them, but on occassion, they are alone. They are doing some creative writing course, that requires a pair, and well the two of them are in a group. They spend a lot of time working on it, so i understand to that aspect.
The other day, I was free, all my friends had classes, so I went to the mall to stroll a bit, i got a bite to eat, watched a movie! I HAPPENED TO BOUNCE EM UP!! Turns out, they got bored working on the essay, and they decided to just go hang out somewhere. I was cool with it, i mean, yeah, she has her own life, she doesnt need to tell me everything she does, but she usually mentiones things like that lol. I know, its a friend too, but i mean... her other friends, she wud usually drop a text like, "hey hun, i am going out with a couple of friends, see you later!" And i usually do the same, ESPECIALLLY WHEN I AM GOING OUT WITH GIRL FRIENDS lol.
When she saw me in the mall though, she did her usual cute little smile she always does for me. And I know deep down, its nothing. But the guy.... HE IS SOOOOO CHARMING AND SWEET. The dude was like opening all the doors for her and stuff lol. I ended up walking with them, but... its like, he was racing me to it!! lol. Ok no, not like that, but he was sort of doing those stuff, and she seemed to really be encouraging the flirting, cause she was like, aww soo sweet!
Argh, please help me lol. What can I do to avoid getting these kind of jealous scenes? lol. Writing it here, i see its not that bad what i am saying lol... or is it? Is this something that should concern me? I know for a fact she loves me, and she spends every moment with me! but, since this project... she has been spending a lot of time with him, and since our years and faculties are different, we got different schedules... so most times, they end up being free together. Her facebook, geez he is her number 1 fan on that application thingy lol.... they are always wall posting and commenting... DUDES... SHE RARELY EVEN WRITE ON MINE ANYMORE (though, i had told her about this, and currently she is doing the alphabet every day on my profile, she is at T now lol) ! But, i have seen a few posts where he asked if she was free some day, and she was like, nope! that day is reserved for my cupcake (me
) lol... we had made a date that day lol. His response was nice... but HE STILL WAS FLIRTY!!! Her friends on her facebook too... they always like talking about him, and on some conversations, they talk like... she has a secret crush (its a lot of lolz and chaos in these conversations). But i am thinking, is it possible things like this, cud lead her to like... replacing me? The guy, i spoke to him a few times, and he doesnt seem interested in having a girlfriend right away.. cud it be he is really focussed on schol, or is he **** focussed on ONE girl? >.<
Some extra info: My relationship with her is perfect though. We love each other. sometimes on days she just skips classes to be with me...I skip to be with her. We have dates at least once or twice a week, or every two weeks etc. We confide secrets in each other, and tell everyone's secret to each other lol. so yeah, no doubting this.