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#1 help

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Posted 03 October 2010 - 06:11 PM

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So last night i went to a dance party. It was a legit dance party none of that smoking drinking nonsense. Anyway, i met this girl we didnt really talk much since the way the dance was structured it was like group dancing. I met her though and asked her for her number before she left, and she gave it to me. This is the tricky part... we have no mutual friends, and we live in different states (only 30 -40 min so nothing drastic), but i think its worth it. Now that i have her number though, what should i do next? how do i go about having her show her interest. At some point i would definitely like to get coffee with her and get to find out who she is. Texting? phone call? I dont know! ahh! help?

#2 Bud

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Posted 03 October 2010 - 08:59 PM

Dear help

Well done on getting her phone number. The first thing that you must do is to give her a phone call. Do it within the next day or two. Don't leave it for a week. She will expect a call soon if you are interested in her. Leaving it to too long would not only be a momentum killer but emotionally could wreak havoc in your mind if you are a worry wart.

I would not start with the text messages until you have become friends or better acquainted. The advantages of talking by phone rather than text is that firstly it's a bit more polite, secondly you can express yourself better on the phone and thereby gauge how well that you interact with her and thirdly you get real time answers instead of a lag (as waiting for that text could be a drag if it's slow in coming.)

Before you call her have a bit of think about how you can meet her. Are you thinking of going to her state or where you planning on her to come to you? If you don't know her area to well then you might want to google map it. See what type of cinemas or cafe's are close by. Once you have a plan with a date and time in mind then give her a call. If you like what you hear on the phone then set up a meeting with her.

Good luck with it - Bud.

#3 Heart_Break_Kid

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Posted 08 October 2010 - 01:24 AM

Hey help!

Yup, try to call as soon as possible... as Bud said, try to structure a plan to get to her. As you two have no mutual friends or any history, it would be better for you to plan it closer to her state than yours. And on the plus side, i think it would show her that you are willing to go a bit out of your way for her.

I think you should ask her to coffee and perhaps a movie, so that if it gets awkward, and you run out of conversation, you have the movie to fall back on for a bit, and you could also find conversations from it.

But of course, the movie idea is my approach, you dont have to do it, its just a tip! I think it works :)
Then, i also worry that it may appear wierd in that, ur meeting someone u hardly know, and going ina dark room O.o

Lol, so go ahead and give her a call!

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Posted 15 October 2010 - 01:50 PM

Yes you should call her.
Since you already got her number in a non drinking, non smoking party (Which indicates two things 1. She likes you and wants to meet up with you further, 2. She wants you to call her soon) you should call her
Don't waste time.
Give me one good reason why you are waiting.
Call her before she forgets You.
Ask her out for a coffee or dinner or something.
Best thing would be inviting her for another similar party. (That will definitely work)

Reply me when you have done that. And I believe you will succeed.

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#5 Denisonn

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Posted 02 January 2011 - 05:54 PM

There is nothing wrong in making her call and ask for a coffee.
you can initiate with it later on if you felt you can ask her for a date.

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Posted 21 June 2011 - 12:55 PM

So last night i went to a dance party. It was a legit dance party none of that smoking drinking nonsense. Anyway, i met this girl we didnt really talk much since the way the dance was structured it was like group dancing. I met her though and asked her for her number before she left, and she gave it to me. This is the tricky part... we have no mutual friends, and we live in different states (only 30 -40 min so nothing drastic), but i think its worth it. Now that i have her number though, what should i do next? how do i go about having her show her interest. At some point i would definitely like to get coffee with her and get to find out who she is. Texting? phone call? I dont know! ahh! help?



Hi There!
It was nice meeting you. If you are convinced that the girl is interested in you try to get her number and try messaging her. If she replies back then, it is sure that she is also interested. Then you can continue impressing her. Other wise leave her and meet someone else because there are many dating girls out there who are waiting for you.

Anyways, best of luck an have fun!

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Posted 05 March 2012 - 05:56 AM

I would not start with the text messages until you have become friends or better acquainted. The advantages of talking by phone rather than text is that firstly it's a bit more polite, secondly you can express yourself better on the phone and thereby gauge how well that you interact with her and thirdly you get real time answers instead of a lag (as waiting for that text could be a drag if it's slow in coming.)

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Posted 11 June 2012 - 05:09 AM

Dear Help,

Congrats on getting the number! That's usually the hardest part depending on the female! I agree with some of the other posts as far as giving her a call, just don't jump the gun and seem desperate because women get that all of the time from guys. Make sure you focus on her and show that you are of high value. This doesn't mean to say "oh I have a billion dollars and a porsche" but more along the lines of listening to what she has to say and secretly letting her know without telling her that you have that to offer. You never know, she may not be worth it after a couple of dates and then again she may so don't jump in to fast. You seem like you are on the right track, just maintain a cool, calm and collected mentality and remember the number one key, listen and acknowledge what you are hearing because women love to talk and when someones listening to them, it intrigues them. Good Luck in your journey!




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