Are These Signs Of Interest From A Guy?
Posted 28 January 2010 - 04:15 PM
She told me, her friend went to the bathroom, and well it was just him and her. She said out of the blue the guy gave her his number, and told her whenever she is around the faculty give him a call. She took it, and then he asked her for hers. So she gave it to him.
She was talking to me and trying to understand if i think he could be interested in her. Additionally her friend had a joint convo with em on msn, and he added her through it, and now he talks to her everyday.
Could this guy be trying to um, well... get her? lol.
For the record, i am not jealous or anything, maybe a bit lol, but its just that she is sort of worried about how to be and stuff. She is not the type to lure a guy like that you know? She feels a bit wierd about the whole thing, and is sort of wondering if she could be reading too much into it. What do you guys think?
I trust her enough to know she won't leave me for him lol.... but i mean, you never know! What if he turns out to be ten times better than me? lol.
Posted 28 January 2010 - 06:31 PM
Hey, i am not one to be jealous and stuff.. but, how could you identify if a guy is flirting with someone?.
hi, this is common dilemma.
In general, anything a guy does or says to you that is the slightest bit nice, funny or entertaining is flirting. Most guys won't bother to talk to you unless they are flirting, or it's clear it's some other type of business.
Just look for the signs...If he is constantly smiling at you, or touching you these are signs of flirting...So show interest by smiling and touching back.
By reading their body language and personailty or how they talk.
If he gives you hard eye contact! If he smacks your butt...Lol....Or if he hold a long smile at you.
To flirt, you basically just need to smile and make eye contact. And be nice when you can. And a light touch never hurts, like on his arm or shoulder.
When you flirt you should just be yourself.... Showing an interest in someone, giving someone special attention, calling/texting more than they do to other people, asking for phone #.
So just add on this list....
Posted 28 January 2010 - 07:40 PM
Well, they never had physical contact, he moves a bit... shy and stuff. My friends call him my stunt double lol! But she did mention something about him smiling and like staring in her eyes when they talk... so... looks like i got some concern lol.
Posted 29 January 2010 - 09:34 AM
I don't think that you have to worry about him flirting as much as him actually going for it. He might not be aware that your girlfriend is already spoken for but he has within a short amount of time gotten her contact number and is now speaking to her every day.
This guy has no hangups about being shy and waiting for the right moment to ask a girl out. He is so self assured and comfortable around women that asking them for there phone number is like second nature.
If your girlfriend is unsure about his motives and how to act around him then all she really needs to do is mention that she has a boyfriend. If he asks her for coffee or something then she could say "sorry but my boyfriend and I are doing this and that". If she mentions the word "boyfriend" enough then he should take the hint and leave her alone.
If you are busy doing something else and she can't really say no then she could always make sure that there mutual friend comes along. This way he and her never need to be alone together and she can still be friendly and all that.
Remember that out of all the boys on campus she chose you for a reason! So be confident and have some trust in her and the relationship. If you have any concerns then make sure that you talk to her about it first. As long as you remember to communicate and be honest with each other then you should be fine.
All the best - Bud.
Posted 29 January 2010 - 10:30 PM
Well, earlier today i met with her, and i was "playing" Drama Queen... lol. Acting like she chose him over me etc. And she reassured me she wont be choosing anyone over me... except her favourite football player, Michael Ballack lol.
Yeah, Bud, you are right, because they havent spoken that much really, and she said they never reached that conversation to talk about your relationship status. She said all they are aware of is both are in the same college but different faculties.
Yep! She chose me!!
Yeah, we communicate quite a lot, and we always discuss our feelings... so i don't think we have much to worry about! Besides, despite being her boyfriend, does not mean she cannot have friends who are guys! So i guess i should just let whatever happens be!
Thanks a lot guys!
Posted 21 June 2011 - 07:08 AM
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