Posted 19 October 2009 - 09:40 PM
Master The Fine Art of Talking to Women?
What should you look for to know whether he/she's truthful and suitable mate for you? Date a woman on par with you. As in don't reach out of your league.
How to lead casual conversation with a romantic spark? Aspects of flirting that distinguish it from the ordinary courtesy. What are attraction turn-offs for most people?
How to find something in common to talk about? What kind of signs do girls give you when they're interested? Follow this advice and eventually you will have to work on figuring out which girls you want to keep.
Recently I developed a crush on a girl with a boyfriend...
We've known eachother for a very long time but I only noticed her in that way a few months back when she started to give me some signals. My instinct tells me that they are signs of interest but the truth is that I don't really have much experience on that front. Now this may seem like a poor excuse but I'm usually a bit picky when it comes to girls, and it takes someone special for me to take an interest in them, so I didn't have many girlfriends. But back to the point it all started a few months ago when we wen't out with quite a group of people, I noticed her staring at me from across the table for maybe 2-3 times and when I looked back it usually lasted for about 5 seconds without saying a word until she looked away. Later that night we started talking. Again, ALOT of eye contact, it made me pretty nervous because her eyes were just wide open and locked on me for the whole conversation, she laughed at anything remotly funny I had to say and touched me alot too, later her boyfriend arived too for about an hour then we all left, we were pretty drunk by then. We said goodbye and later I saw them searching for their bycicles I said Hi and told them we were going too, we were with a bunch of people but she only hugged me and tried to kiss me on the lips, I'm way too tall and I didn't really expect it so it landed on the neck
. Now 3 months ahead things are still the same, lately she seems to be going where I go and I see her twice a week. She never brings her boyfriend though. Anyway I feel like we have great chemistry together, and I've been close to just kissing her alot of times but the fact that she has a boyfriend keeps me from doing it, yet I never see them together and she never even discussed his existence with me. Any idea what to do with those feelings? I just don't want to let her go because she is the only girl in my life that I liked so much and I'm starting to think that she really is that special someone, but I can't just take action either because it might blow up in my face.