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My girlfriend to whom i cared alot has left me with no space...I thought she loved me but it was a horrific reality when i came to know that she was using me and only after my money..She came and showed love and respect..Then she used me..
Then she abused me..Then she left by saying bye forever......Its been more than two months now..I am having a terrible battle of negative feelings inside me..All i am seeking to take revenge or not to forgive her ..I am stuck..I am loosing my mind..
I am loosing my job...I am getting shattered day by day...Only one thought in my mind is her...And i cannot bear the pain of cheat and breakup..And the thought that she is relax and not even cared now is a hammer itself on me..
She is on my mind like a dark scary cloud.
Help me
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Girlfriend To Whom I Cared Alot Has Left Me With No Space charmer786
MultiQuote#2 Guest_gtmm_*
Posted 15 June 2008 - 09:52 PM
Hey man,
I am also in a similar situation. So far, I have been a complete wreck. I can't eat, think, work, study for courses, or anything of that nature. The only thing on my mind is her and the good times we had and why she had to ruin it. That right there is the problem. I know this may go in one ear and out the other but I know that this works. It's been 2+ months, so now is the time to move on. You need to change things up a bit.
Change up your room, move your furniture, small things like that that are constant reminders that you are moving on. She has myspace/facebook? Ignore it. Block her if you need to. This girl USED you and she ABUSED you. I don't know you but for you to get taken advantaged of like this you may have a big heart. I have the same problem. It's time to say she can't ruin my life anymore. She just can't. My girlfriend had a face book and I gave my friend my account and to change the password so that I can't look at her. Go to the extreme if you must.
You CAN'T let this ruin you. Another thing, rid of everything that's hers or that reminds you of her. I packed everything up in a nice box put a letter in it and put it on her doorstep. YOU NEED TO CONVINCE YOURSELF YOU DON'T NEED HER. Writing does help. Don't think so? Try it. Get a notepad out and just write and write and write. I did that and it helps a ton, I'm even here talking to you in hope I will feel better (selfish, I know).
I created a blog. This is a great stress reliever. Lastly, I text messaged people that I intervened with and helped ruining a relationship and just apologized. That was just a good way for me to clear my head. Lastly, whatever you do.. do NOT talk to her. Make 0 contact whatsoever. If she calls, ignore it. If she calls again, ignore it again.
The 3rd or 4th time is when you assess your situation and see if you want to get back with her. But um, bro, short piece of advice-- don't. Once she sees your life is back together she will come crawling. It will happen, maybe not now but she will. This is when you need to grow a sack and say, you put me through enough. I have moved on. Take your memories because I do not need them." I hope this helps you.
Here is my blog, if you need to contact someone or just to talk to-- message me there.
daaaamnit.blogspot.com
I am also in a similar situation. So far, I have been a complete wreck. I can't eat, think, work, study for courses, or anything of that nature. The only thing on my mind is her and the good times we had and why she had to ruin it. That right there is the problem. I know this may go in one ear and out the other but I know that this works. It's been 2+ months, so now is the time to move on. You need to change things up a bit.
Change up your room, move your furniture, small things like that that are constant reminders that you are moving on. She has myspace/facebook? Ignore it. Block her if you need to. This girl USED you and she ABUSED you. I don't know you but for you to get taken advantaged of like this you may have a big heart. I have the same problem. It's time to say she can't ruin my life anymore. She just can't. My girlfriend had a face book and I gave my friend my account and to change the password so that I can't look at her. Go to the extreme if you must.
You CAN'T let this ruin you. Another thing, rid of everything that's hers or that reminds you of her. I packed everything up in a nice box put a letter in it and put it on her doorstep. YOU NEED TO CONVINCE YOURSELF YOU DON'T NEED HER. Writing does help. Don't think so? Try it. Get a notepad out and just write and write and write. I did that and it helps a ton, I'm even here talking to you in hope I will feel better (selfish, I know).
I created a blog. This is a great stress reliever. Lastly, I text messaged people that I intervened with and helped ruining a relationship and just apologized. That was just a good way for me to clear my head. Lastly, whatever you do.. do NOT talk to her. Make 0 contact whatsoever. If she calls, ignore it. If she calls again, ignore it again.
The 3rd or 4th time is when you assess your situation and see if you want to get back with her. But um, bro, short piece of advice-- don't. Once she sees your life is back together she will come crawling. It will happen, maybe not now but she will. This is when you need to grow a sack and say, you put me through enough. I have moved on. Take your memories because I do not need them." I hope this helps you.
Here is my blog, if you need to contact someone or just to talk to-- message me there.
daaaamnit.blogspot.com
#3 Guest_hibiscus_*
Posted 06 October 2008 - 04:30 PM
I know it's hard I have been going out with a guy for 14yrs and he cheated on me I know that is different from using you but I didn't want to eat or do anything for two weeks. You need to get your mind off this girl I know it is painful but time heals all pain I still do have feelings for my ex but it's been a year now I know it's really hard but you need to see these people for who they really are and go and do something, exercise, jog find a hobbie to do or do something that you enjoy you don't have to go out with the boys or go out if that will keep your mind off her. Remember she did not respenct you or loved you but your $$$$. From time to time it may hurt and you feel depressed and alone but you need to keep strong and move on trust me there are other fish in the sea I am not saying go out and find another girl but take time out for yourself and when you are feeling a bit more stronger go on with your life. I didn't like this before everything was negative for me I thought it was a dream but now I see reality and this is what will happen for you in your own time. Good luck mate.
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