Singles Dating Forum: Online Dating Relationships Advice: Im A Fool And Im A Tad Bit Gutted! - Singles Dating Forum: Online Dating Relationships Advice

Right so this is how it is im 19 next month,

Last year i met this girl lets call her Miss Smith(17) at a friends party we got on really well and had a laugh nothing really came from it although i did pick up on a few vibes that she was interested but i just shrugged it off thinking it was just because i found her attractive and it was in my head and the fact she was kinda seeing the guy who was having the party.

So time passes and i stumble across her myspace so i add her to see if she remembered me, which she did, so we got chatting on there and then that led to chatting on msn where i started picking up on a similar vibe that i felt the first time i met her.

So a couple of weeks pass talking daily on msn and she brings up the first time we met and how she liked me so i explained to her that i liked her too and that i felt a vibe which she also felt but i didn't want to persue because of my friend. She started joking about the vibe saying it might still be there with a msn wink so immediately i thought that she was interested which is great but nothing was actually said about us still likeing each other until today.

She says to me i have something to tell you i don't normally do this and im embarrased but here goes. Then she goes on to say about her still liking me but even if i liked her nothing could happen because of something that happened to this girl we both know, lets call her Leanne.

Now a few months before i started talking to Miss Smith on myspace i was at the pub with a few friends and i got talking to Leanne one of my friends gf they had only just started seeing each other and we were getting on just chatting. By the end of the night her bf had kicked off because he was pissed and thought me and her had got off with each other in the pub which wasnt true so he storms out and goes home and everyone chases after him because they are up his *beep* basically but anyway me and Leanne stay in the pub and she complains she has to walk all the way home on her own so i offered to walk her some of the way no alteria motives just being nice so as we are walking along she pulls me into an alley and starts getting off with me i was either to weak or to pissed to push her away and it turns out that Miss Smith and Leanne are best friends. Although Leanne promised not to tell anyone she went and told Miss Smith about it.

Now the problem is Miss Smith doesnt want anything to happen between me and her because of that and what Leanne may think. I personally dont see why Leanne would have a problem with me seeing Miss Smith because she knows that what happened between me and her was a drunken mistake and we both don't have any feelings for each other.

And now im gutted basically because Miss Smith is one of only 3 girls i have ever met that i want a proper relationship with and because of one stupid mistake ive screwed that up which sucks a lot.

I just wanted a rant but if you have any thoughts on what i should do then please tell me.

Like it or not, small talk is quite often the most important thing in getting acquainted with girls. It maintains and builds relationships and more importantly a lot of important information, tends to only flow via small talk.

If you don't know that you tend to be the last one to know about such things. I've certainly suffered a lot for my lack of small talk skills though I'm a lot better now than I used to be.

Small-talk EITHER IN PERON OR ONLINE can be enjoyable and an easy way to begin a day or relax during breaks, etc. The skills can be learned, and it's a rather fascinating linguistic study as well. Small talk is supposed to be, after all, light conversation.

And I don’t think anyone should make decisions for you.

Greets