[idontknow]

O.K. There's this girl I like, and I think she likes me also, but I just can't say for sure. Here's the signals Ive gotten:
1)When we talk she always faces me directly, makes full eye contact, and smiles a lot. Also Ive seen her moistening her lips, and straightening her hair, and she seems to laugh louder at things I say, then what others say.
2)When I'm around her, and she's talking to someone else, but she knows I'm there, sometimes she tries to straighten her shirt, skirt etc. Also when she is in the same room as me, she usually faces my direction even if were not talking and she is a long distance away. Also one time I was close enough to her to see that she was facing one direction, but her right foot was at a 90 degree angle facing straight at me. Also Ive caught her glancing at me many times, and looking at me from across the room, Ive also felt her staring at me many times. And sometimes when we pass each other, or were near each other we lock eyes for anywhere from 1 to 3 seconds.
3)The other day she was sitting right next to me and our shoulders touched but she didn't try to move away, that happened twice. Then that same day she was sitting behind me, she leans forward to say something to me and she puts her hand on my shoulder.
4)Also just recently I noticed her take a long walk around just by my table, when it was definitely quicker to go a different way.
5) This is the one I really want to know, just the other night it was her, me, and two married women friends of ours, one of them asks her which guys she likes, and she says well the other friend knows who I like. She never said any names, but my question is why would that topic be brought up? I could only think of two reasons: 1)She doesn't consider me at all worthy of being one of the guys she likes, otherwise why would the topic have been brought up in my presence? 2)She does like me, and this is something that was set up to by one of the friends, to try to subtly light a fire under my butt.

That's all I got, please tell me what your thoughts are. All opinions appreciated, but I would really like to get some female opinions in here.

[Chris]

She most probably likes you.
Does she seem self conscious around you?

It sounds like she has a crush on you and is embarrassed that you've found out, all i can say is give her time and she might have the courage to come speak to you and tell you. Tell Girl your true feelings about her.
Why not? You're still single, she's still single, go for it dude. You need to get to know her better as well, but don't be cocky about it and try to take control of forcing her to go with you or your friendship with her is over.

Or you could make the first move and just go over and say hi, don't mention that you have caught her looking at you, just start a conversation with her so that she feels comfortable.

chris

[idontknow]

Chris, on 30 March 2010 - 09:11 AM, said:

She most probably likes you.
Does she seem self conscious around you?

It sounds like she has a crush on you and is embarrassed that you've found out, all i can say is give her time and she might have the courage to come speak to you and tell you. Tell Girl your true feelings about her.
Why not? You're still single, she's still single, go for it dude. You need to get to know her better as well, but don't be cocky about it and try to take control of forcing her to go with you or your friendship with her is over.

Or you could make the first move and just go over and say hi, don't mention that you have caught her looking at you, just start a conversation with her so that she feels comfortable.

chris

Thanks for the input. As to your question about whether she is self conscious around me, yes it seems like she must be at least a little bit nervous in my presence, because she usually straightens her hair, skirt, shirt, etc. But she doesn't ever seem to stutter or anything.