[Miriamne]

Me and this guy have been talking for a month and when we were introduced i was told he wanted a relationship but he had been burned by girls, well, we went out on 3 dates and have been talking for a month he got really busy this week (but i thought he was blow me off i) so i told him i really liked him and i was upset because he didn't want to see me this week. Then he told me that i was moving to fast for him, and he doesn't know what to tell me because he gets busy and i have to deal with it.
So now what do i do?

[Chris]

You have to give him space and wait for him to come to you when he wants to. You're going to scare him off even more if you keep bugging him and asking him why he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. He gave you an answer, you were moving to fast. So, just give him space and I'm sure he'll think "okay, she's backing off.

To make a relationship work, you see.. you need to understand him. Maybe try to see his ways, by you explaining it, i find he's not someone who likes to move fast on relationships.. try to make him feel comfortable while he's with you.

Chris