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I told a guy that I liked him sometime ago and then eventually asked if he was interested but he said he was not.
I still want to get to know him and hang out with him but I am not sure what he would think if I did. Would it be appropriate for me to ask him to hang out with me sometime?
I don't see why it wouldn't be possible for you to ask him to hang out with you sometime. Initially he might be suspicious in that you want to ask him out on a date but if you state it clearly that you just want to be friends he might say yes.
You should ask yourself however what your real motif is for wanting to hang out with him.
Are you hoping that the more time you spend together that he will eventually capitulate and be your boyfriend or is it that you genuinely want him to be part of your life because he is a good person to hang around with?
If it is the former reason you should be careful in that if you do eventually hang out together that you will
get affected by his presence.
Bottom line: You might fancy him now but the more you see of him as friends the more your feelings for him will grow and if he still does not feel the same way about you then you might be setting yourself up for a failure.
To this extent you may not be giving yourself a genuine chance of finding and being with someone who really wants to be with you. For more tips about asking a man out, refer to e-books in series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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