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I got attracted to a man who's my friend for years. He always wants to know what's going on in my life, and asks me about it later, when he thinks I'm upset he will want to talk about it, he comes shopping with me, he notices instantly if I am wearing something new, and compliments me when I am having a good hair day or whatever.
One of our friends said that she thinks that he does like me, but that she thinks that he is not good enough for me there are a few catches,
1) He has just started dating a new girl, however, he rarely mentions her a group of us (our other friends as well) he still danced with me just as much as her,
2) He talks about other girls to me.
So is he really interested in me?
What do you think? Is he just being a good friend or is there something else there? And if there is, why wouldn't he act on it?
From the way that he behaves when you mention other guys it sounds like he has a bit of a jealous streak in him. It is a bit difficult to tell whether it's because he wants you for himself or whether it's just jealousy based on wanting your attentions for himself and not share you with other guys.
As a friend he certainly treats you very well in that he is very attentive to your needs, however since he has started to date another girl one would think that he only considers you as a friend for the moment.
He doesn't sound like a guy to beat around the bush unless you make him extremely nervous (which it doesn't sound like) I'm thinking that if he were interested in you that he would be the type to ask you straight out.
A question that you will have to ask yourself however is how much do you like him? Considering that he is off limits at the moment because he is currently dating someone.
Bottom line: Would you consider being with him if he was free and asked you out? Would you be prepared to jeopardize your friendship with him and your girlfriend's whom he has dated?
If the answer is yes to any of them then make sure that he knows how you feel about him when the time is right and he is available. It might be the green flag that he needs in order to give him and you the go ahead. For more tips about how to charm men, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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