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I really like this guy and I don't want to lose him.
I'm not afraid to talk to him, I just don't want to ask him out and ruin our friend based relationship. I'd like to know if these are signs that he likes me.
Well think about male's reactions. He has hugged you, given you a massage and rubs up against you, so these are not only signs, they are obvious attraction signals!
My guess is that you are a nice woman that's really into this guy and he's enjoying the attention that he's getting from you. But you are in danger of becoming a FRIEND!
Don't miss out. He is letting you know through his body language that he is interested. Don't worry about ruining a friendship.
There are 2 worse things that can happen:
1) He turns you down if you ask for a date; or
2) You keep waiting to ask him out and someone else does.
Go for it. You have nothing to lose.
Bottom line: If your friendship is ruined just because you asked for a date, you do not need him as a friend. The way a man looks at you is a big indicator as well as incidental touches.
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