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I saw a girl that I felt that I was really into but saw her with her boyfriend. Soon she started to grow on me.
I try talking to her but she acts shy and disinterested; and at other times she is happy to see me especially when I greet her by name. A few weeks ago I built up the courage to ask her out. I was afraid to ask her out in front of other people.
Best advice I can give you is to be sociable and talkative with everyone. It will depend on how confident you are as a person, but if you can talk to everyone, then you will be seen as a guy of value and it won't be surprising if a girl likes you.
Also, when being talkative and sociable, remember to display a sense of fun, lightheartedness and humor about yourself.
People will then want to be around you and you will give off a positive vibe. Avoid being really quiet and complaining all the time like many people do. I mean, do you honestly like being round someone who is negative?
If you haven't got a lot of experience in the dating game and if you're not sure whether a girl likes you, the key is this - ASSUME she likes you and act accordingly.
Basically, if you assume she likes you, and then your attitude and body language will be far more attractive than if you are constantly thinking "does she like me?" all the time.
Bottom line: If you are talkative and sociable, then you also want to flirt with the girl occasionally, so you can send a message to her making your interest obvious to non-verbally. Other hints: well you'll discover yourself as the story continues in e-books.
If you just go up to a girl and say "will you go out with me", that is a complete recipe for disaster.
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