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I caught my girlfriend a few times staring at a guys. When she looked at one guy, I noticed him acknowledge her stare by looking back at her so I was pretty sure she was looking.
Naturally, I became upset and we ended up in an argument for the first time. She went on to say how she thought we had such a great time together and that she couldn't believe that I would want to end things over this after having such great dates. I really liked this guy a lot and wasn't sure now if I over-reacted or misinterpreted things.
I feel that your jealousy was unwarranted and you did overreact. She is checking out other people in the room, a natural thing people do when they are out.
People do this, maybe looking to see if they know someone at the next table, or maybe someone else simply looks nice. Always remember: Women do not like an out of control man, period.
She obviously didn't go over there and ask anyone for their number. Just because you were with her doesn't make other men invisible. She has backed away from you because she is rethinking your relationship.
So long as you live, men will look at other women, whether a glance or a stare. That is a part of life. Then you made a mistake by commenting about her being cold, so she felt she was being attacked after having what she thought was a great date.
Bottom line: It takes women longer to know for sure whether they want to be in a committed relationship. You showed her that you are a jealous type of man, and now she has to decide if that is the type of man she wants to be involved with.
If you keep calling her, you will only make matters worse because you will look desperate. You've already called. She knows you want to communicate. If she wants to communicate, she'll call. You can't take back what happened, but you can learn from it. Hopefully she will call you and you can talk things over. For more tips about balancing love and jealousy, refer to e-books in series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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