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I work in an environment where you meet a lot of women. Our acquaintance was fast asleep in a chair and she was lying against my shoulder with my arm around her. I am very bad at reading signals but this would lead me to believe she is at least at ease with me.
I fell asleep that way and went home the next day) and now I need to know what to do next.
Being too nice, too non-aggressive, waiting too long before you would finally decide to try something, make you awkward in her eyes.
Women like to be approached, offered opportunities, which make them the one who choose.
They need to be wanted before they'll be interested.
If you take too long, they'll figure whatever signals they were picking up when you first met, inadvertent or not, must have been wrong, and they'll give you a big old friend stamp, right across the forehead.
No amount of scrubbing will ever take that stamp off. After all, you are the only one trying to keep it going.
Bottom line: There's nothing wrong with just hanging out with whatsoever, just don't let it go on too long without making a move. That's really all there is to it.
The important thing to remember is that most girls don't want to hurt your feelings. So, if they aren't interested, they will be just neutral in their tone. For more tips about picking up signals from women, refer to e-books in series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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