How to start and keep conversation with women going?

Email course

This is the email course aimed at making you comfortable in meeting and talking to women. As a guy you need to make yourself comfortable and easy going in woman’s company. This course will be delivered to your mailbox over the next 8 days.

Here are the contents at a glance:

Part 1: Do you feel you have difficulties staring conversation with women?
Part 2: Meeting women: How do you keep the conversation going?
Part 3: How to know if a woman is spoken for?
Part 4: What to say once you walk up to the girl?

Part 1: Having difficulties staring conversation with women?

When women are attracted to a man, they need to take risks in getting his attention and letting him know she's interested. They are just as unsure as to how the man is going to receive them as men are about women.

Women are flattered by a man showing his interest in her and taking the risk of asking her on a date. Most of the time, I would say a woman would be incline to accept a date just because he took the risk.

Part 2: Meeting women: How do you keep the conversation going?

So often I hear men complaining: “I always have trouble bringing up a conversation and when I do it's just for a couple of minutes. And then there's dead silence - what are some things I can say.” How do I keep the conversation going if I barely know anything about a woman?

Conversation is responsibility of both partners

First a conversation is an activity that is carried out between 2 people. You can try to keep it going but if she's not interested than it will just die out anyway.

However if the other person is engaged by what you have to say than they will without doubt keep the conversation going as well. Thus don't think of it as your sole responsibility to keep things going the responsibility lies with her as well.

You know and have experienced things but the question lies in that are those same activities something that she would be able to comment on and are interested in.

Engage A Woman in A Casual Conversation

You should show an active interest in her as a person. You will probably find that if you ask some questions here and there that she will keep the conversation flowing.

By that time you should be able to pick up on things here and there in her life that you can get her to elaborate on or discuss further.

There is nothing that you can really say that will sweep a girl of her feet. If she is into you then you can basically talk about anything and everything.

Even though we might want to express ourselves beautifully in front of the women of our dreams realistically it isn't all that necessary. If a woman likes you and your heart and intention is in the right place then she will get you no matter what you say and will accept you for who you are.

Part 3: How do you get to the point where you can meet / talk to women?

I can her so often a man complaining: “I have no idea how I'm supposed to behave when 'chatting up' women, because I usually don't do it!”

I'll take a frame at the question that I THINK you're really asking yourself, which is "how do you get to the point where you can meet/talk to women."  That's really the important one.

Are you an extrovert or an introvert person?

You don't have to be an extrovert to have fun.  This is a mistaken belief, which I have now begun to question.  Learning extroverted type social skills and behaviours, such as proper eye-contact, firm handshakes, fluid posture, and small-talk skills is important for socializing.  However, taking up extroverted skills doesn't mean you have to be an extrovert.  Anybody can learn these skills.

If you view the social situation as an opportunity to learn instead of thinking, "Oh, He's just an extrovert.  I'll never be like him because he's just better than me" than you'll most likely pick up on some social skills from other men you never thought of before.

Part 4: What to say once you walk up to the girl?

I'm sure you asked yourself many times already: What to say once you walk up to the girl. A first answer that crosses my mind is: "introduce yourself".

If you do it too soon (which I almost guarantee you will), you put pressure on her. Giving out a name to a stranger she just met can be threatening.  It also is the same thing every other guy she's been hit on has done.

Iintroducing yourself to someone

Look, introducing yourself to someone is not rocket science.  The ideal, of course, is to make her admire your sense of humour by making her laugh (at something you say, not at you).

But making her laugh right away isn't necessary.  All you need to do is get her talking.  Give her the opportunity to say something substantive.  Information is power; the more you can get her communicating with you, the more you find out about her beliefs and interests and how to continue your approach.

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